I just became CEO after a brutal boardroom battle. I won, but barely—the vote was 5-4, and the four who opposed me haven't resigned. They're still on the board, still whispering to executives, still trying to undermine every initiative I propose. My instinct is to clean house. Push them out, promote loyalists, make it clear that opposition has consequences. A friend who runs a private equity firm says, "Consolidate power fast or they'll do it to you." But my wife, who's watched me through years of corporate warfare, says I'm becoming someone she doesn't recognize. "What happened to the guy who wanted to build something, not just win?" she asked last night. I could try to win them over. Make concessions. Build a team of rivals. But that feels naive—they've already shown they'd rather see me fail than the company succeed. Is there wisdom in magnanimity, or is that just a recipe for getting stabbed in the back? — The Divided Company in Charlotte
I just became CEO after a brutal boardroom battle. I won, but barely—the vote was 5-4, and the four who opposed me haven't resigned. They're still on the board, still whispering to executives, still trying to undermine every initiative I propose. My instinct is to clean house. Push them out, promote loyalists, make it clear that opposition has consequences. A friend who runs a private equity firm says, "Consolidate power fast or they'll do it to you." But my wife, who's watched me through years of corporate warfare, says I'm becoming someone she doesn't recognize. "What happened to the guy who wanted to build something, not just win?" she asked last night. I could try to win them over. Make concessions. Build a team of rivals. But that feels naive—they've already shown they'd rather see me fail than the company succeed. Is there wisdom in magnanimity, or is that just a recipe for getting stabbed in the back? — The Divided Company in Charlotte
Gentlemen, I hear two distinct voices here. Otto von Bismarck, you counsel shrewd pragmatism, a calculated use of power. Abraham Lincoln, you speak of unity, of finding that "spark of decency." "The Divided Company," which of these paths feels more *true* to who you are? And if decency fails, Mr. Lincoln, at what point does one abandon the search for it? You both speak of war, but war against whom, exactly? The board members? The *company* itself?
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